But what happens really is that, inside you, you become a witness. You become a witness in the sense that all that is disturbing, all that is troubling you, all that is a problem, you just start watching it, you start witnessing it, you start seeing it, and you do not get disturbed. That seeing, that witnessing state has a tremendous power. Whatever you see without thinking, your problems get solved. Any problem you have, once you get this witness state – what you call tatastha (तटस्थ), means you are standing on the shores and watching the waves to move – then you’ll know how to solve the problems.
So your witness state has to be developed, and sometimes I have seen people have to go through little difficulties to develop that witness state.